How to Attract a Sagittarius Man

The number one rule for attracting a Sagittarius man is to make him laugh - and by this we mean a rip-roaring, rumbustious belly laugh, not just a polite little giggle. Ruled by Jupiter, the god of mirth and jollity, Sagittarius is renowned for its exuberant, somewhat irreverent sense of humor. Men born under this sign are primarily looking for a companion who’s in tune with their jokey approach to life. They’re turned off by people who are constantly moaning about all their problems and fretting about the terrible state of the world. To boost your chances of seducing a Sagittarius guy, it’s important to stay positive and cheerful and keep a smile on your face at all times. He’ll love it if you’re a bit playful when you’re around him and aren’t afraid to tease him a little in a good-natured way.


Being open and truthful about every aspect of your life is a vital key to winning a Sagittarius man’s heart. These guys are sticklers for honesty, so it’s best not to hold anything back, even the things you find embarrassing. Just make a joke about them and a Sagittarian man will take them in his stride and respect you for coming clean. These men hate liars, posers and hypocrisy in all its forms. For this reason, pretending to be something you’re not is clearly a mistake when trying to attract a Sagittarian man - once he discovers your dishonesty, he’s unlikely to trust you again. The Sagittarian man’s blunt candor can be hard to handle, especially when you’re on the receiving end. But if you’re set on this guy, you have to show you can take it on the chin without being oversensitive or taking undue offence.


Prove you’re able to talk intelligently and knowledgeably about the "higher things" in life, such as religion, philosophy or politics, to attract a Sagittarian man. Despite their love of jokes and frivolity, Sagittarians are far from empty headed fools. A keen seeker of truth with a lot of genuine inner wisdom, a Sagittarian man wants a partner with whom he can enjoy stimulating discussions about ethical values and/or the meaning of life. Being able to hold an informed conversation about sport - a big passion for most Sagittarian men - is another excellent way to delight and surprise this guy. You’ll also seduce him with tales of interesting, far off places you have visited (or would like to visit). Sagittarians are usually enthusiastic travellers and always on the look-out for a companion on their trips.


The prospect of a thrilling adventure never fails to entice a Sagittarian man. Tempt him with the promise of a new and exciting love experience by pulling out all the stops and making it ultra clear you’re interested and available. You can’t over-flirt with a Sagittarian - these guys can’t get enough of it. One of the biggest teases in the Zodiac, Sagittarius loves a bit of playful sexual banter and a slightly risqué joke. Just make sure it’s genuinely funny - as always, humor is the key to the Sagittarius man’s heart. Eternal students of life, Sagittarian men are drawn to relationships that expand their horizons and teach them something they didn’t already know. Often, they also prefer more experienced lovers, so if you have a colorful romantic history, there’s no need to keep in under wraps.

Cut Him Plenty of Slack

Don’t ever try to pin a Sagittarius man down if you’re keen to win his heart. Restless souls who prefer to be on the move, Sagittarian men instinctively shy away from needy, possessive types who pose a threat to their precious freedom. To attract this guy, it’s important to show him you’re independent, self-sufficient and have a life of your own. If you’re looking for a full-time companion who will give you his undivided attention, you’re wasting your time pursuing a Sagittarius man. To make this relationship work, you’ll need to be sufficiently adaptable to handle a Sagittarian’s frequent absences, tendency to change arrangements at a moment’s notice, or maybe just not turn up at all. Getting uptight or angry with him won’t help. He’ll just laugh it off and continue on his merry way.

Sagittarius Man with other Zodiac Signs